Every Parent Deserves the Information, Emotional Support, & Skill Building Practice within the Loving Arms of Community

Welcome, Dear Parent.

This space was made just for you.

We serve families around the globe, on almost every continent. 

Can you guess the underlying theme we hear from these Mothers, Fathers, and anyone in-between?

They want their children to feel unconditionally loved.

For their children to grow up and become "who they are," without shame or fear.

And how can we ensure this to be possible for our children?

We learn. We unlearn. We grow, stretch, shed.

We surround ourselves with information that challenges our conditioned beliefs about what we think parenting should be. We own our fears. Our wants.

 

About who we are and the kind of parenting experience we believe is possible.

We feel. We learn how to become safe in our body and our emotions, so we can support our child to grow in emotional maturity and intelligence. 

We can gain skill. So we can model and respond to our children with attunement, empathy, confidence, clarity, clear communication, and creativity. 

We are witnessed.

We are seen and understood by parents who live what we live,

and long for what we long for. 

We get it. 

Parenting takes us places that we resist.

We are challenged in ways that enrage us, and create a deep resentment toward our child, partner(s), and being a parent at all.

That's not fertile soil for Family.

That is not the unconscious energy we want our children to grow up in.

Maybe, you've tried EVERYTHING to make life easier in your home. But the stress just keeps building, and everyone in the home is disconnected, struggling to communicate, struggling to feel joyful. 

It shouldn't be this hard. This painful.

So what do we do? What do you want?

Join Our Empowered Parent Revolution

Empowered Parent Revolution is a 12 week program devoted to parents like you, who are seeking guidance through your most challenging parenting moments.

We will cover the ins and outs of Empowered Parenting, providing you with a concrete framework you can work into your daily parenting journey. 

The intention of this course is to arm parents with the information they need to make grounded and informed decisions that align with YOU, the tools you need to thrive through conflict and big emotions, and the confidence you need to "be" the tools you're learning.

Check out our syllabus!

 

W E E K 1 Welcome and Orientation

 

Our first group session is our most exciting! You will meet your fellow circle members, and ease into our space.

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • Who your cohort members are!

  • How to settle into a “Brave Space”

  • All about your group trainer Sam Mcfin

  • The logistical “ins and outs” of the next 11 weeks

 

 

 

W E E K   2 : Setting Your Intentions as an Empowered Parent

 

Here we will become clear about what you will receive from our Empowered Parenting Process. We will explore how you support yourself through stress and your strengths as a parent, and any fear that could be in your way.

 

 

W E E K   3 : The Ten Core Pillars of Empowered Parenting

 

Here we will explore the Ten Core Pillars of Empowered Parenting. We have broken down these pillars into three segments: The head, the hands, and the heart. 

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • What dedication means as an Empowered Parent

  • The Ten Guiding Principles of Whole Family Empowerment

  • The Power Over Parenting Paradigm

  • The Power Under Parenting Paradigm

  • The most common obstacles that keep parents from embracing Empowered Parenting.

 

 

W E E K   4 : Making Sense of Attachment Science

 

Here we will explore your generational patterns of connection, intimacy, and relational safety. How we parent, ourselves, and our children, is an inheritance, passed down from generations before us. We will not make your history nor your present bad, or wrong. We will name it for what it is, and make a commitment for what you’d like it to be moving forward.

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • What creates a Secure Attachment

  • What creates an Ambivalent Attachment

  • What creates Avoidant Attachment

  • What creates Disorganized Attachment

  • How to earn a Secure Attachment within yourself so you can offer this to your children, no matter their age

 

W E E K   5 : Making Sense of Nervous System Science

 

The physiology of Parenting is the cutting edge of understanding our internal world as parents, and the internal world of our children. With understanding, comes calm. With information, comes internal safety. We must know the ins and outs of our nervous system so we can support our children’s budding nervous system. We believe this information is intuitive, and defies science...or language...yet we utilize both to meet ourselves where we are at in this day andd age. 

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • ALL behavior is our best attempt to meet this one core need : SAFETY

  • How to be your child’s Safe Harbor by becoming your own Safe Anchor

  • Understanding of how the nervous system works

  • Polyvagal Theory and the Vagus Nerve

  • How to support our children through sensory overload back into safety

  • How to track your nervous system Thermometer and return to calm

  • The art of Rupture and Repair

  • Emotional Freedom Technique: “Tapping” for Nervous System Safety



W E E K   6 : Making Sense of Mindsight and Brain Science

 

As we continue our journey to equip you with an embodied understanding of the Ten Core Pillars of Empowered Parenting, and returning you to your rightful place: Secure Attachment, we will move into understanding the power of the mind.

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • What Mindsight is and how to use it

  • The neurology of Empathy and Compassion

  • How parents are literally their children’s brain sculptors!

  • How to choose curiosity rather than judgment

  • The Six Barriers that keep us from Mindsight

  • The Seven Encouragers of Mindsight

  • Brain development for children birth-age 30

  • Understanding our subconscious mind and our belief system


 

W E E K   7 : Making Sense of Emotional Intelligence

 

The heart of Empowered Parenting is understanding how our physiology, brain, and emotions work together to create our inner orchestra. Understanding Emotional Intelligence provides both the parent and the child with inner and outer freedom to live whole, full, exuberant lives together.

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • What Emotional Intelligence is

  • How it serves

  • What keeps us from embodied Emotional Intelligence

  • The new communication of Feelings, Faux Feelings, Needs, and Beliefs

  • How we can support our children’s emotional development

  • An emotional body guided meditation and instructional video

  • “Permission to FEEL”

  • Non-Verbal Self Empathy



 

W E E K   8 : Empowered Conversations

 

We have laid the foundations of the head, heart, and hands of Empowered Parenting. Now, we move to the voice. Navigating this new paradigm of connection, relational safety, inspiration, and presence, requires a “PhD in Communication!”. We begin that process here together.

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • Your generational patterns around the experience & expression of anger

  • Your generational patterns around voice and expression

  • Your belief system around voice, expression, and feelings + needs

  • a Ten Step Process of Empowered Conversation

  • What blocks us from communicating consciously and non violently

  • How to make a clear request versus a demand

  • How to model intentional speech


 

 

W E E K   9 : The PEACE Process

 

You’ve made it to the Essence of Empowered Parenting! Here we combine everything you have learned so far into our Jai Methodology of PEACE. We believe ALL conflict within a parent + child dynamic, or between siblings, can be solved PEACE-fully. With our methodology, all punishments, contrived consequences, threats, bribes, and excess rewards can we set out to the curb. We have the practical, actionable steps you need to thrive through disconnect, confusion, and parental overwhelm during your most challenging parenting moments. 

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • What holds you back from surrendering to play?

  • The Five-Step Process of PEACE

  • How to shift from Power Over or Under Boundaries into Power With

  • The art of the Loving Limit

  • Boundaries from Soul Values

  • How to focus on engagement over expectations

  • Your role in teaching children how to keep their agreements without shame


 

W E E K   1 0 : Anger and Healthy Aggression 

 

You’ve made it! We’ve moved through ten weeks in community. You began this journey in the unknown, unearthing whatever was ready to be transformed. You dug in & committed to what you are willing to release. You listened intently for the new beliefs within you that longed to be heard. You’ve gained clarity & inspiration. You’ve released. You’ve dared greatly. You’ve received. Now, let’s celebrate! Let’s layout how far you’ve come.

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • Generational patterns around anger and aggression

  • How to move through anger in your body in a way that is harm-less

  • How to practice, & model, anger resolution for your Child

  • How to hold space for & support your Child’s anger processing

  • A deeper awareness of your judgments & beliefs around anger

  • How to anticipate anger by reading your body’s cues

  • How to befriend your anger in whatever way serves best

 

 

W E E K   1 1 : Playful Parenting and Storytelling

Play is every parent’s superpower! We will explore your playful inner self, so you can meet your children in theirs, no matter the age! 

 

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • The Twelve Play Languages

  • The Four Temperaments

  • The barriers that keep parents from playfulness

  • How to transform conflict through empathy & play

  • Role-reversal & healing role play

  • Healing stories for stressed behavior

  • How to connect to your inner Child & reclaim play

  • What games speak to your heart & how to introduce them to your Child

  • Games, games, and more games!

W E E K   1 2 : Your Personal Transformation

Let's back and discuss how you have grown through this process!

Do you struggle knowing how to handle your child's big emotions?

Do you long to know how to be your child's safe space, and how to meet their needs?

Do you wish you had more confidence and security in yourself as a parent, so you could respond in ways that nourish your's child's growing development, instead of harm and hinder?

Join Us! Parents all around the planet are discovering how to be the Empowered Parent they long to be.

 

How This Works

  • 12 Community Calls with our Facilitator, Sam Mcfin

  • 12 Weekly Audios and Workbooks for teaching and self-reflection

  • A Private Facebook group to post your weekly reflection, and any parenting questions you have

Schedule Your Connection Call!
Here we will find out of this program fits your needs best. Payment plans, and couples discount will be provided.